Americans Think You Need How Much Money To Get By?!?

How Much Does an American Need to Get By

The beach is free if you live close by

Apparently Americans think a family of four NEEDS $58,000 to get by in today’s world and I think that is outrageous. Why? American’s have lost sight of what is a need versus what is a want. Granted, everyone will strive for nicer versions of needs, but those nicer versions are wants. The base model is the need. People are out of touch.

If I HAD to (and I stress had to because I wouldn’t want to, but I would) and I had a family of four I could get by on a lot less. Would life be perfect, or even partially ideal? No, but we’d survive and I’d provide a decent life for my kids until I could increase my income. So why do American’s these days think they need so much money for a family of four to get by?

Housing

Depending on where you live, housing can be really expensive. Most people want to live in a certain area and generally those areas aren’t always the cheapest. However, if I HAD to get by, I’d move to one of the cheapest places I could find that would get a roof over my family’s head that was somewhat safe.

You probably wouldn’t be able to find a safe area in New York City on a minimum wage job, and I get that. But, if that is the case, WHY ARE YOU STILL IN NEW YORK CITY?! Pick your family up and move to an area with jobs and a lower cost of living. Is it ideal? No, but I’d do it if I had to get by.

With a house you’ll likely have utility bills as well. Do everything you can to keep them as low as possible. Yes, it’d be awesome to keep your house at 72 degrees all year round, but in the sweltering Florida summers it costs a lot of money. Set your thermostat to 78 or 80 degrees or, better yet, keep the AC off all together if you can. Use fans and hang out outside in the shade to keep cool.

Food

Fancy Food Dining Out

No fancy meals at restaurants :(

If you’re struggling to get by, you can’t afford to eat out. Period. I like eating out, it is a nice change of pace, but if I HAD to live on much less, we’d cut out eating out. In fact, we’d cut out some of the more expensive foods at the grocery store.

We wouldn’t be eating gourmet or even what some people consider decent meals at home either. We’d eat a well balanced diet using some of the cheaper foods such as beans, rice and on sale produce. It isn’t ideal, but we’d do what we had to to get by.

Clothing

People like new clothes, and I get that. I prefer purchasing new clothes as well, but I still shop at Goodwill often when I find something I like. The problem is, when I’m struggling to get by, I’m not going to be buying things I like. I’m buying things to fulfill a need, a specific purpose. The clothes at Goodwill are normally more than enough to get by.

If there is a specific job related piece of clothing you need, do the best you can to find it used or on sale. Otherwise, why would you buy any clothing new unless it is a bargain basement price?

Transportation

beater car

I’d drive a beater… if I even owned a car.

You’ll need to get around if you’re trying to get by. You have to get to your job after all! If I was struggling to get by, I definitely wouldn’t have a new car. If I had a car at all, it’d likely be worth less than $5,000 and be almost a decade old. I’d probably try to avoid all of the costs that come with a car, but that isn’t always possible in areas with poor public transportation.

If public transportation is an option, I’d take that. If it was unreliable, I’d try to live closer to work and ride a cheap bicycle I bought in a garage sale or walk to work. If it rains, that sucks… but I’m struggling to get by and that’s my reality.

Cell Phones

This is where the outrage lies. People struggling to get buy shouldn’t have smartphones with data plans unless it is paid for by work or it is a requirement of your decent paying job. Smart phones are not a necessity. In fact, basic cell phones aren’t even a necessity. Prepaid cell phones? Also not a necessity. Believe it or not, people got along just fine before cell phones existed and you can too. If I was struggling to get by, a land-line or a cheaper prepaid phone would be my phone of choice.

TV and Cable

sweet flatscreen tv

No sweet flatscreen TV for me

Another thing you shouldn’t have if you’re truly struggling? A flat screen HDTV. Wait… how about any TV? And there is no way you should have cable. What value does TV or cable have other than entertainment? Not much for most people. If I were struggling to get by, I wouldn’t have either one. It’d suck, but I’m struggling, not living a life of luxury and entertainment.

Computers

What about computers? If you’re using it to better you situation I could see the argument for one, but I wouldn’t be paying for a high end one. I’d get the cheapest computer possible that fulfills my need to better myself to make more money. If possible, I’d avoid paying for internet by using free WiFi at local businesses. It isn’t a long term solution, but until I’m not struggling anymore, I’d do it if I HAD to.

Gifts

no gifts for christmas

No Christmas gifts this year :(

Giving gifts is not something you do if you’re struggling to get by. Giving gifts is a nice gesture, but many people have grown to expect them which kind of defeats the purpose. I’d love to be able to give my kids Christmas presents, but if I’m struggling to get by, that isn’t an option. Sorry kids!

Even Pets

If I was TRULY struggling and I absolutely HAD to, I wouldn’t get any pets and any of my current pets would find a better home. Pets are EXPENSIVE! Hopefully you’d have a relative that could keep them until things got better, but if I couldn’t afford pets I’m sure there are plenty of people that would be able to take better care of them than I could. After all, I’d be struggling and be pulling any strings possible just to get by.

Scraping By Is Not a Fun Reality

Just barely getting by would be an absolutely horrible reality and I’m lucky that I haven’t ever had to be in that situation. If I was, I’d be doing everything I could to get above just getting by. I’d be working my butt off and finding a way to learn the skills to get a better paying job and move up. However, until I started moving up, I’d be focusing on my needs while I was struggling to get by… not what American’s think they need today.

What do you think an average American family of four needs to get by. I’m not talking about the wants, I’m talking about the needs to live and provide for your family on a basic level? Do you think some of my assumptions are outrageous? If so, call me out! I want to know your opinion!

Credit Fraud Alerts Work A Bit Too Well

credit report fraud alertI guess having a fraud alert on my credit report works a bit too well. It isn’t as big of a problem as credit fraud alerts not working at all, but it is a bit frustrating. What exactly am I talking about?

Remember a couple months ago when I thought I was dealing with a little bit of credit card fraud that actually turned into identity theft? Well… when that happened I immediately put a fraud alert on my credit report.

That fraud alert is designed to prevent others from opening any new credit in my name. The key there, is to prevent OTHERS from opening new credit in my name… not me.

DENIED!

No… I wasn’t featured on the Suze Orman show this weekend. Sorry to disappoint you. Instead, that was the unfortunate response I received this weekend when I was applying for a new credit card. I was a bit surprised to find out that I had been denied for a credit card because my credit is pretty good.

I called the credit card company’s reconsideration line to see if I could find out why I was denied. I figured maybe I was denied because I had just taken out a new mortgage, but other than that I was still pretty puzzled.

The credit card representative asked me what phone number I had used when I applied for the card. I thought this was a bit weird, but I told her which number I had used. She then said she had to do some research on my phone numbers and would have to call me back on a verified line.

After doing a few minutes of research she told me she wouldn’t be able to continue with the application process due to a special circumstance which she could not disclose to me… That struck me as really strange until I told her the following.

Is This Because I Have a Fraud Alert on My Credit Report?

Well… now that you mention it that is the problem! The credit card company representative explained that when someone has a fraud alert on their credit report they have to be able to verify my phone number and my address on my application going back at least 3 months time.

The problem with my application is that they could only verify my address going back one month… which makes perfect sense because I had just moved a little over a month ago. I asked her what we could do to resolve this problem and she said there really isn’t anything that we can do except wait until I’ve lived at my new house for three months.

Bummer! I then followed up to see if there were any other reasons why I was denied for the credit card I applied for. The representative informed me that was the only reason I was denied and that I should call back in two months since applications are good for 90 days. I wasn’t aware of that, but it is good info to know if you’re ever denied for a card for something you can fix quickly.

Finally, I asked the representative if they’d have to pull my credit report again when I call back in two months to be reconsidered for the credit card I applied for. She informed me that it isn’t company policy, but some representatives will insist that they pull another credit report. 

So, that’s what I’ve learned about how fraud alerts really affect your credit report. The good news is, because I couldn’t get a new line of credit myself, I doubt a fraudster could either. The bad news is… I couldn’t get a new line of credit and if I had needed it that could have been a real problem. Luckily, it wasn’t a necessity, but just a new card I wanted to add to my wallet.

Have you ever placed a fraud alert on your credit report? How did it affect you? Did you have any weird stories like mine from this weekend?

Personal Finance Round Up #56

personal finance round upI was a bit bummed because I ended up having to work last weekend! It was pretty much a wash and I didn’t get anything done, which means I have a lot planned for this weekend… I’ve already started to get some tasks out of the way but the next two days will be busy for sure. If you have a bit more free time than I’m planning to have, you should check out these awesome posts below.

Planting Our Pennies has good news! Most people are self-absorbed too… enough said!

Club Thrifty ran into a similar problem as I had in the past with billing errors causing temporary insanity. That’s why you should always review your bills and statements!

Afford Anything shares her view on vacation rental properties… owning them that is. I think I’d have to side with her, and I LIVE in a vacation rental city!

Narrow Bridge Finance debates whether or not to pay his mortgage off early… and comes to a sensible conclusion. Not that one I’ve made, but still sensible.

Budgeting in the Fun Stuff is glad the $500 she spent on surgery for her pet turned out to be worth it. We’ve wondered the same thing when we were considering allergy shots for our dog. Luckily our results were a positive experience too!

That’s it for this week, unless you wanted to check out some of these awesome carnivals I was included in over the last couple of weeks.

Finance Carnival for Young Adults, Festival of Frugality, Lifestyle Carnival, Yakezie Carnival, Carnival of Retirement, Another Yakezie Carnival, Another Finance Carnival for Young Adults and Carnival of Money Pros.

Best 0% Balance Transfer Credit Cards of Summer 2013

save money with 0% balance transfer credit cardsIf you’ve sworn off debt but are trying to dig your way out, 0% balance transfer credit cards can be a great tool. You have to know that you’ve completely sworn off incurring any more debt in order to play the 0% balance transfer game, but if you’re certain then you can save a ton of money by taking advantage of some of the best balance transfer credit card offers.

Most balance transfer credit cards will offer you a promotional 0% balance transfer period lasting up to 18 months. Simply transfer your debt balance to the credit card and they won’t charge you a dime in interest until the promotion period ends. There may be balance transfer fees such as a set dollar amount or a certain percent up to a cap, but the best 0% balance transfer credit cards will waive this fee!

However, the game is a very dangerous one. You MUST be extremely careful and pay off the full balance you transferred before the promotional period ends. If you don’t, then you could be charged interest all the way back to the day you initially transferred the debt! That can add up fast as interest rates on credit cards are normally pretty high. This will likely lead to you losing more money than you saved so you have to have a very solid game plan.

If you don’t have any balances to transfer, there are other credit card options and you can read more about them in my post, the best sign up bonus credit cards of 2013.

So now that we have the basics out of the way, let’s take a look at the best 0% balance transfer credit cards currently on the market!

Slate Credit Card from Chase

chase-slate-credit-cardIf your sole purpose in getting a new credit card is for balance transfer features, the Slate credit card by Chase is the hands down winner. Why? While most 0% balance transfer credit cards charge a flat fee or percentage to transfer your balance, the Slate card from Chase has no balance transfer fees at all if you transfer your balance in the first 60 days! This feature can easily save you 3% or more since most other 0% balance transfer credit cards charge a 3% fee at a minimum.

The other amazing feature of Slate is that the introductory period 0% period lasts 15 months. There are some cards, (a couple listed below) that offer longer time periods, but you’ll definitely be paying balance transfer fees. Run the numbers to see if the 15 month 0% no transfer fee option is better for you.

The Slate card from Chase has no annual fee and has a special feature called Blueprint that will help you to avoid paying interest by paying down your balance based on guidelines you set.

Click here to apply for and compare the best 0% introductory rate balance transfer credit cards.

As with any card, please read all of the fine print and details on the application before you sign up. You need to completely understand the details to ensure you don’t pay any extra fees or interest!

Discover It Credit Card with 18 Month 0% Balance Transfer Option

discover-it-credit-cardThe Discover It credit card is another strong contender for the best 0% balance transfer credit card. When you’re signing up, make sure to pick the 18 month 0% balance transfer option to get the longest 0% introductory period possible.

This card has one of the longest 0% balance transfer introductory periods at 18 months. I haven’t seen another card with a longer time period on the market lately. In addition to that, the Discover It credit card will give you 5% cash back on rotating quarterly categories and 1% cash back on all other purchases.

This card won’t nickel and dime you either! It offers no annual fee, no overlimit fee, no foreign transaction fee and no pay by phone fees. They’ll even waive the late fee on your first late payment… but if you’re making late payments you shouldn’t be using 0% balance transfer credit cards. On top of that, they won’t increase your APR for paying late… although, as always, there are exceptions.

The other nice features include a Cash Back Concierge and 100% US Based HUMAN customer service. Not many cards offer that these days unless you pay an annual fee.

Be aware that balance transfers have a 3% fee on the Discover It credit card.

Click here to apply for and compare the best 0% introductory rate balance transfer credit cards.

As with any card, please read all of the fine print and details on the application before you sign up. You need to completely understand the details to ensure you don’t pay any extra fees or interest!

Citi Simplicity Credit Card

citi-simplicity-credit-cardThe Citi Simplicity credit card is exactly like it sounds, extremely simple. The Citi Simplicity card has an 18 month 0% balance transfer AND purchase introductory interest rate. Whenever you transfer your balance you’ll pay a fee equal to the greater of $5 or 3%. Other than that, this card has no late fees, penalty interest rates and no annual fee… EVER. How awesome is that? They also promise fast, personal help, 24 hours a day!

Click here to apply for and compare the best 0% introductory rate balance transfer credit cards.

As with any card, please read all of the fine print and details on the application before you sign up. You need to completely understand the details to ensure you don’t pay any extra fees or interest!

Citi Diamond Preferred Credit Card

citi-diamond-preferred-cardThe Citi Diamond Preferred credit card offers an awesome 18 month 0% introductory rate on balance transfers. They do charge a $5 or 3% fee, whichever is greater, on all balance transfers.

As a Citi Diamond Preferred card holder, you’ll have access to use Citi Price Rewind, which allows you the potential to get a lower price after you purchase an item. You’ll also have access to a 24/7 concierge to help you book hotel rooms or flights. You also get access to Citi Private Pass for special access to presale tickets and other awesome experiences.

This card does NOT have an annual fee either! Lots of benefits and no annual fee is always a great combination.

Click here to apply for and compare the best 0% introductory rate balance transfer credit cards.

As with any card, please read all of the fine print and details on the application before you sign up. You need to completely understand the details to ensure you don’t pay any extra fees or interest!

Chase Freedom Credit Card

chasefreedomvisaThe Chase Freedom is one of my favorite all around credit cards and it even comes with a 0% intro APR for 15 months on both balance transfers and purchases! The Chase Freedom Visa credit card does have the typical $5 or 3% (whichever is greater) balance transfer fee, but with all of the extra benefits, it might be worth paying the fee.

If you spend $500 within the first three months you’ll receive $100 cash back. Just to be clear, balance transfers do not count toward this spending limit. You’ll also get 5% cash back in rotating quarterly categories and 1% cash back on all other purchases.

You’ll never pay an annual fee on the Chase Freedom credit card and your rewards won’t ever expire. I absolutely love this credit card and it is easy to see why.

Click here to apply for and compare the best 0% introductory rate balance transfer credit cards.

As with any card, please read all of the fine print and details on the application before you sign up. You need to completely understand the details to ensure you don’t pay any extra fees or interest!

Don’t Forget the Following When Considering a Credit Card

The credit card game can be beaten, but in order to get the rewards there are risks. I ALWAYS pay my credit card off in full every month and you should too. If you can’t do this I would suggest against getting credit cards.

You absolutely should not get new credit cards if you know you have an ongoing problem with debt. You should not tempt fate unless you’re certain you have changed your charging ways forever. The benefits do NOT outweigh the risks.

What 0% balance transfer credit cards have you used and how did it work out for you? What other balance transfer credit cards are you considering? I’d love to hear your input below in the comments!

The information stated above is, to the best of my knowledge, correct as of May 16th, 2013. The offers on this page will change periodically as offers change. As with any offer, make sure to read all of the details on the application site as those are the terms and conditions that will govern any credit card you sign up for. What you have read here is simply a summary and does not contain all terms and conditions.

We Cancelled Our $50 Wedding Reception Venue For a Better Deal

Frugal Wedding Reception VenueHey again Money Life and More readers! It’s Tori again and I’m stoked to be sharing another post in my wedding planning series! I have decided I will be writing one post every week up through the wedding so make sure to check back next week for another post.

To give you a little more background on the wedding plans, we are having a DIY morning shabby chic garden wedding. We’re having a brunch reception, no bridal party and we’ve only invited family (with the exception of two of my friends). The best part is, we’re going to put it all together for under $3,000. After spending more than I wanted on my wedding dress, I had to figure out how I was going to make up for that unexpected cost of almost $400, plus whatever alterations are going to cost.

The Original Frugal Wedding Reception Plan

As Lance wrote a while ago, we chose to have the ceremony at a frugal wedding venue, a local park, and the reception at community center in the town neighboring ours. The community center was only $50 to rent from 8 am through 11 pm. It included more than enough tables and chairs, a full kitchen, bathrooms, and was located right on the bay.

As fantastic of a deal this was, I soon cancelled the reservation. You all are probably thinking how crazy I am for cancelling such an amazing space that cost almost nothing! How could I possibly find a better deal? Well here is how!

I couldn’t figure out how the heck I was going to get brunch food all set up and ready, much less keep it warm, at the reception site which is about a 30 min drive from the ceremony site. We would need food, serve-ware,  dishes, utensils, plus what ever else we would need, in addition to someone willing to clean it all up. I called my mom stressing about this and asking how I would be able to do this without hiring a full service catering company, which of course would completely blow my budget.

Our New Wedding Reception Venue at a Lower Overall Price

Mom to the rescue, with the perfect answer as always! She suggested calling a local restaurant, The Egg and I, to see if I would be able to reserve their private meeting room. Sure enough, after speaking with the owner, he allowed us to reserve the room FREE OF CHARGE! Wooo hooo!

All we had to do was pay for the food and normal gratuity. Better yet, there is a flat screen television with a sound system, and is allowing us to decorate with minimal restrictions! Because we are having under 25 guests, we calculated that all of the food including gratuity should be right around $300. I think this is a pretty dang good deal if you ask me! Plus no clean up and very little stress!

So now we have the dress, and both venues taken care of, it is on to booking the officiate, and figuring out DIY decorations.

Total Wedding Cost So Far: $1,295

Venue: $100    Dresses: $895   Reception: $300

Here is a lineup, in no particular order, of upcoming post topics for this series.

  • Pinterest Inspired Crafts
  • DIY Ceremony Decorations
  • After Ceremony/Pre Reception Refreshments
  • Finding the Best Deals on Reception Décor
  • How to Make Your Own Wedding Invitations
  • Wedding Registry Tips
  • How to Find a Great Photographer At Reasonable Price
  • Alternatives to Fresh Flower Bouquets
  • How and Why We’re Making Our Cake
  • Other Random Wedding Stuff!

Do you think our new venue is a better idea than the original? Are there any particular topics that you’re really looking forward to? Leave a comment so I can tailor future posts to what you want to know!